From Michael Horton's book, "Hope When Your Heart Breaks," pages 35-36
Martha told Jesus the next step He should take, but Jesus wasn't taken in by Martha's worriers and control. Jesus sees a bigger picture and seeks a greater purpose. Martha may have been preparing lunch, but Jesus was preparing an eternal banquet. Martha railed at Mary's fault, but Jesus rejoiced in Mary's faith. So, He answered Martha.
To Mary, it may not have even mattered what Jesus said. In her split second of utter humiliation, Jesus didn't let the feeling linger. He did hesitate or allow the awkwardness to prevail. Before Mary's face could become flush with hurt feelings, Jesus filled the gap. He leaped to her defense, stepped in to help, and showed He cared. At what appeared to be the point of her greatest failure, Mary saw the Son of God advocating for her.
He does the same for you. You may feel like you want to disappear, but Jesus insists on being your companion when you are most vulnerable. He calls you a worthy friend. The apostle John knew what it was like to be brushed off and embarrassed. But he also knew Jesus. Later in his life, John reflected honestly about sin and failure. He said, "If anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous." (1 John 2:1). We have an advocate. John experienced Jesus caring defense. Mary did too. When Jesus Christ, the Righteous One speaks up for you, there's no one who can speak against you.