It's no accident that Jesus said to His followers, "I have called you friends" (John 15:15). He also expresses that precious sentiment to you as you walk in faith. You are not just a name on Jesus' church membership list. You are merely a face in the crowd of Christ's believers. You're not an imperfect and needy burden Jesus has to lug through life. You are Jesus' friend.
"Greater love has no one than this," Jesus said, "that someone lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13). Jesus proved His bond of friendship with you by doing just that. He died for you, not because you were so noble,but because you were so needy. Jesus loved you at your lowest point, and His is alive to continue loving you during your deepest need. Jesus is your true friend who understands you and walks patiently with you. Your Savior not only understands the grief you can express, but He also understands your groans too deep for words. Jesus doesn't rush you through your pain; He rushes to you and stays with you.
From "Hope When Your Heart Breaks," page 155
