There is no third possibility: love is either conditional or unconditional. Either I attach conditions to my love for you or I do not. To the extent that I do attach conditions, I do not really love you. I am only offering an exchange, not a gift. And true love is and must always be a free gift. John Powell SJ
For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ the Lord