Over the years I've filled my journals with quotes from the great British author and apologist, CS Lewis. I stumbled over this truth this morning:
There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, "Thy Will be done," and those to whom God says, "Thy will be done." All that are in hell, choose it. Without that self-choice there could be no hell.
From "The Great Divorce," page 72